The unknowns in life are scary.  Will I make the right decisions?  Am I happy where I am?  What can I do to make my life better?   Will I be better or worse off if I… move, take that other job, start my own business, say no, say yes, do nothing?

You have to start down a path to find out where it takes you. You might be pleasantly surprised along the way.

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I love watching surfers.  Not only are they incredibly physically fit and strong, they have amazing courage to get out there in treacherous waters, with things that are much bigger than they are lurking beneath the surface.  Each time they go out, they challenge themselves to overcome the unknown.  Even when they get knocked down and endure great setbacks, they muster a rebound to get back on the board and back in the game to take life head on.

Professional surfer Bethany Hamilton lost an arm to a shark doing what she loves.  After that attack, she never gave up.  “My passion for surfing was greater than my fear of sharks” – Bethany Hamilton.  Bethany Hamilton.com

Her story is an inspiration no matter what you do for a living.  What is it that you need to overcome?  What is your shark?

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Yesterday, a new acquaintance said to me, “If people can’t see that we are living in heaven on earth, then they need to take a good look around at the natural beauty found all over our planet.”  I think this starfish is a great ambassador of the earth to we humans. Let’s pay attention.  We need to be aware and intentional (everyday) that the footprint we are making is not putting what is naturally amazing on our planet in jeopardy.  The good news is that millennials seem to be getting it.  Let’s make sure little guys like this don’t go away. Starfish(paulshaffner)

There is surely a future hope for you, and your hope will not be cut off.               – Proverbs 23:18

Hope Proverbs

 

Many years ago, I heard a Pastor at our local church say this phrase and it stuck with me. He said, “Faith is believing, even if it’s not, so that it might be.”  None of us knows what will happen in the next hour, the next week, the next month, or next year.  And if fear is involved, the road ahead may look scarier than it will actually turn out to be. At the bottom of it all, all we really have is faith. If we truly believe in who we are and that what we are doing today matters, there is a really good chance our dreams will be realized. Good actors practice and rehearse for roles they may never get. But they rehearse like crazy anyway, believing they will get the part. Faith and belief are the fuel and spark that light the fire on dreams.

What are you believing in today, so that it might be tomorrow?

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In my book, Your Ultimate Life Vision, I talk about three circles. They are the three aspects of reality in terms of what we do for a living. Their proximity to each other can make life amazing or make it miserable. Here they are: 1) What do I like to do? 2) What am I good at? and 3) What can I get paid well to do? More often than not, two of these three intercept, but that doesn’t get you to your ultimate life.  I want to do what I love, be really good at it, and get paid well to do it.  This is the sweet spot where the three circles collide.  I’ve been operating in one or two of these circles for a lot of years. I’m now taking bold steps forward to pull those three circles together and step right smack into the middle. I’ve learned the circles don’t magically come together by chance, pure luck, or fate.  To get them to overlap, they need intentionality, a plan, and a lot of hard work.

How are your circles lining up?

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I’m navigating through stormy water right now career wise, steering my life into the direction of the future. Going through turbulence is just a fact of life.  It stinks, but there’s not much we can do about it but keep putting one foot in front of the other and focusing forward. I’m reading a great book right now by Bob Beaudine, called The Power of Who.  I’m finding encouragement in his book as he talks about bad weather (unforeseen circumstances) might blow you off course temporarily, but as soon as possible, you reestablish the correct heading.  He goes on to say, discernment is the ability to see things deeply – beyond the obvious and below the surface.  If you’re going to successfully traverse the unpredictable, often rough and treacherous waters of life, you’ll need the ability to read the currents below.  And this is my favorite part… “Take hold of the wheel, you’re closer than you think.”

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Proverbs 14:15 says, “A simple man believes anything, but a prudent man gives thought to his steps.”  In this age of receiving messaging and information from so many sources, believing everything we hear without giving it thought is simple, but not prudent.

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Run like others or be different?

One day a hare met a tortoise. The hare said to the tortoise, “Why do you move so slowly? Why don’t you try to run like other animals?” Thus, the hare laughed at the tortoise for his slow pace.

The tortoise said, “I know that I cannot run. But I can beat you in a race.”

“Then come, let us run a race at once,” said the hare.

The race began. The hare ran very swiftly for some time. Then he stopped and looked back. He saw that the tortoise was far behind. So he said, “Now I can take rest. Let the tortoise come here and then I shall run again.”

So the hare sat under a tree to take rest. But soon he fell asleep.

The tortoise went on slowly but steadily. He did not stop for a moment.

Suddenly the hare woke up. He saw the tortoise very near the goal. He ran as fast as he could. But alas! The tortoise had already reached the goal.

From the book, The Tortoise and the Hare, an Aesops Fable story.

Slow and steady wins the race every time, in every area of our lives.

Slow and Steady

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Failures in life are described in surfing terms as wipeouts.  You catch your wave, you’re cruising along, feeling confident, and things seem to be going well. Then something happens. An issue comes up with a family member, something happens at work, or you made a decision that didn’t work out the way you had planned. Often times when this happens the word failure (wipeout) comes to mind. We all have failures of some sort or another throughout our lives. If we don’t learn from them, there is a good chance we’ll repeat them. It’s natural to beat ourselves up when we make mistakes. But instead of beating ourselves up, what if we looked at them as a new skill.  Successful people will tell you they’ve failed many times. The difference is they view failures as lessons they’ve learned which helped propel them forward.

Famous surfer, Laird Hamilton, puts it best this way, “Wiping out is an under appreciated skill.”
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